There’s no time like the present, and considering us women seem to put ourselves down on a daily basis, we think it’s time that we started to love ourselves! It isn’t even just women anymore. As the generations have changed, men are now so conscious of their appearance and how the worldviews them. So, whether male or female, we think it’s time to start loving ourselves for who we are. We might have some insecurities and flaws, but so does absolutely everyone else in this world! It’s time to knock those insecurities out the park, and focus on the things that you like about yourself. Here’s a definitive guide to learning to love yourself. We hope you life will be transformed by the end of it!
What we see as insecurities on ourselves, the wider public won’t even notice. We get so hung up on the smallest of things, when in the grand scheme of things, they’re just a speck of dust. So as much as you can, try and not focus on the little things that you have about your body, and focus on the things that you love. We do understand that as you age, you are going to have some flaws that you really hate. Neck lines is going to be one of them, and lines around the eye. This is where people seem to focus their attention the most, and once the wrinkles and lines start appearing, it’s all someone can focus on. Getting rid of neck lines isn’t so hard. You can either have no surgical treatment, or use creams from the drug stores to try and reduce the signs of the fine lines. Around the eye, there’s the obvious Botox that people either love or hate. But most of the time, it’s just important to embrace how your body is changing, for everyone is going through the same process as you!
Making Yourself Feel Good
It’s important to always make yourself feel good, no matter how you do it. For some women, it’s spending some time in the mirror in the morning putting a nice bit of makeup on, and doing their hair so they feel well presented. For most women, this is going to work, and we highly recommend you try it. We’re not saying to plaster your face with makeup, we’re just saying to apply a light layer. Something you might benefit from is getting into a skin care and morning routine. Cleanse with a face wash, light layer of moisturizer, then all of the makeup that you want to put on. Some people feel amazing when they make the effort to put mascara and foundation on, some have to go the full mile and do their eyebrows. Experiment and see what’s going to make you feel good on a daily basis.
This really is the most important step to loving life. If you’re not going out and doing all of the things you want to do, you’re most likely going to be regretting life. If you get invited on a holiday, go on it! Don’t let anything hold you back, for being happy all of the time is one of the best ways to love yourself. If you get the perfect balance of relaxation and filling your life with exciting things, it should make you feel all round happier of the life you’re living, and therefore yourself. Some people say they’re not so bothered with the way they actually look, more the way that they’re living their life!
Ignore Social Media!!
This is the main thing that we need you to do. Social media can be a horrible place, and people like to comment on absolutely everything that someone is doing, wearing, or even looks like! Although you might not have judgement directly to you, you’ll be judging yourself. People put pictures up on Facebook or Instagram to try and get the attention of others, and to try and get more likes than they have on previous photos. When this doesn’t happen, it’s easy to feel let down and feel a lack of love for yourself. So, we urge you not to focus on social media as a way of getting attention. Apps such as Instagram as the worst for making you hate yourself. People on there are fitness models, models, and makeup vloggers. All of which spend their lives making sure they look perfect, and spend their days taking the perfect photo. Don’t let what they look like shape the image that you think you should have of yourself.